Avoid power struggles, choose your battles. This will strengthen you and better prepare you to face the resistance faced by difficult parents. Patience and persistence go a long way in making conversations productive when it comes to aging parents. As with everything related to dementia, focus on working with your loved one's doctor to determine what could be causing resistance to showering.
But dealing with her difficult mother makes matters worse for Ptacek, the oldest of three adult daughters. Dealing with aging parents can also be frustrating, especially if they refuse your help or advice.
